Me and my wife are simple people. The old gender roles please both of us, and we’re both the type of people who like to have a ruler to measure how we’re doing. 

I’m one of the few online though, who will 100% die saying it isn’t for everyone, should not be portrayed as such, and might not even be for me and my wife forever. People are different and change over time. 

It was just easy and natural (for US) so we talked and agreed this was how we’d do the first few years. 🤷‍♂️