Out of oure lacyness and neat integration in Amethyst, my goto is Alby :)

Sadly they have started KYCing new sign-ups. The minibits wallet by nostr:npub12rv5lskctqxxs2c8rf2zlzc7xx3qpvzs3w4etgemauy9thegr43sf485vg is nice, and the eCash functionality is fun. Worth a try :)

non-custodial lightning wallets like Phoenix (the best one on mobile I agree!) are just in my opinion sadly exponentially more difficult to handle than the custodial solutions. It's not like the onChain bitcoin wallets that are just simply very easy to use, due to the channel management and random ln fees that sometimes need consideration.

Sorry for the late reply, got busy with busy things :)