He's a good dude. I've met him IRL twice. We've drank beers together and he passes the Derek Beer Index scale with flying colors.
I believe people joke about things they don't understand. It's a way to cope, I guess? Though, I don't think I could ever understand it unless I went through it, right? However, all I need to know is that a person felt something was wrong with their lives and they are trying to to fix it. Everyone deserves to feel happy and be able to be themselves. You do what makes you happy and I'll be happy for you 🤙🏻💜🫂