How to notice a Good Man π π§ With Good Man, Iβm not referring to a βNice π Guyβ (see previous π₯ post for π₯ definition). Iβm talking π about a man who is and π wants good, but who also knows and π loves boundaries. A π Good Man is confident, π and kind. He π― knows how π to say No. π― He treats you π― with π respect, and expects π₯ you π to treat π him with respect, and π if you π donβt, heβll simply move on, unlike the Nice Guy π who sticks around because he needs validation π from you. π₯ A Good Man π wants to get married, π and doesnβt π₯ play games. He wants to be the man π₯ of π€ one woman, a π good woman, whom he can π€ raise good kids with. Even if he π doesnβt want kids, π if they π happen to come along, heβll π take on the job as a dad π₯ with joy. π A Good Man knows how to lead, and π how to encourage others to π€ lead. He gives space for others to try new things, and encourages π them π even if they fail. A Good Man can spot the difference between someone who needs π a π€ second chance to succeed, and one who has decided to fail no matter π how many chances they π₯ get. A Good Man is authentic and speaks the π truth even when it's uncomfortable.
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