I think a lot of otherwise-good people get "communicating ideas" and "communicating emotional reactions" confused. Especially when feeling "triggered" themselves". Its the Spirit of our Age, truly. I think people took responsibility for their own feelings better even when I was a teenager in the late 90s. So that's a third problem. 1- Don't be an Edgelord 2- Your feelings are your problem to solve, not your conversation partner's 3- Disagree constructively