Most people just want to install an app, create an account and use it. Quite frankly if I cannot figure out why I'm not getting DM's on Amethyst or, don't see a reply to a DM on noStrudel, have to constantly tune my relays between inbox/outbox and "whatever else" then chances that a normal person will get this to work are not the biggest. Last week I've spent several hours resetting and re-adding relays to Amethyst and noStrudel in an effort to see the same DM's, notes and interactions on both clients. Still doesn't work and that's me, somewhat of a nostr power user.