after being asked about the websocket relay pool connection code in fiatjaf's go-nostr - which i had partially incorporated into realy.lol
well, no, actually, i fully incorporated it and all the tests in there pass. it should work
it includes a client, the relay server listener, a client connection pool (fans out requests to multiple relays for you), has subscription handling code and a standardised subscription identifier scheme all in there
now to get back to finishing the ICP event store