ok i think i figured it out: i did need to 'invite myself' for the events to be accepted, or for some reason i only started to see events after doing this in users.json

```
{"d88c433f34d132f2d46f8fc0f3b4e28bbb7d112629d4bca1cbfc0da471851500": "d88c433f34d132f2d46f8fc0f3b4e28bbb7d112629d4bca1cbfc0da471851500"}
```