As part of your reflections on the topic I would encourage you to honestly answer the likely outcome of two questions:

1, What would happen if tomorrow Israel laid down their weapons and said they would fight no more?
2. What would happen if tomorrow Palestinians laid down their weapons and said they would fight no more?

In the first case, Israel would be annihilated.  In the second case, there would be peace.

One side wants to live in peace and simply exist.  The other side does not recognize the others right to exist.  

It's not about land or borders.  Israel withdrew from Gaza in 2005.  If it was about borders, Palestine would be a separate state today, but they've rejected every single concession over the last few decades.  Those in power don't want a state that also recognizes Israel's right to exist.  As demonstrated all over the world, Palestinians, their sympathizers, and the Muslim world in general, hate Jews and want them destroyed.

Any honest reflection on your part should present those facts plainly.