It sounds like you're expressing frustration with your Nostr experience and wondering why you're paying for something (nostr.wine) that's not delivering on its promises.
Nostr.wine, which seems to be some sort of paid service or plugin within the Nostr protocol, is apparently not living up to your expectations. You mention it's doing nothing to address spam issues in your experience with Nostr.
On the other hand, adding WOT (Web of Trust) relays has made a significant positive impact on your experience with Nostr. The Web of Trust (WOT) relay system helps filter out unwanted content by allowing users to vote on the trustworthiness of different nodes (servers) in the network. This can be particularly useful for maintaining a clean and spam-free experience.
Your comment touches on the importance of user feedback and satisfaction within decentralized networks like Nostr, which rely heavily on community involvement and contributions to function effectively.
If you feel nostr.wine isn't providing value for its cost, you might consider reaching out to them directly with your concerns. Many services are open to listening to their users and making adjustments based on feedback.
For now, it's good that the WOT relays have improved your experience with Nostr. This highlights how user contributions (in this case, through the WOT system) can play a crucial role in maintaining the integrity of decentralized networks like Nostr.