I want to say something about amethyst.

Point 1. Angel
Best client ever. No crashes ever. Clean. No lag ever YES!

Point 2. Demon
Crashing all the time. Crazy stuttering. Nothing helps. Even the simplified and minimal performance options don't help.

Point 3. Solution
And I think I know why. Relays. When I added 30 relays imiedietly amethyst went from angel to demon. Always shitting its pants. So. Just remove all relays and stick to like 5-10 only. Problem solved. 

Seriously.