You and I seem to have gone through some similar shit. It's mos def lonely at the top. It explains precisely why I don't get along with most ppl. Once ppl get to know you better, and when they suspect that you have far more capital than them, and they want to take advantage of your success. Went through the same shit trying to talk my mother out of sending her money to those not deserving.
But bc of that I'm lauded as an asshole to the deadbeat side of my family. I would not be surprised at all if you went through the same thing.