Think about what you just said. 

Now imagine you join Nostr & no nothing of technology besides the few times you ventured into social media the last many years. 

I receive an NPUB … then 

Get confused because none of the relays are working & get others 

1. Change the NIP to my own email address & then get told that’s bad for safety 

So I change it. 

FFS 🤦🏻‍♀️ I HAVE TRIED CHANGING IT