another question about 'outbox' model.. the model you have implemented, when tagging a user, it wont actually publish to their read relays?  still only to my own outbox relays, is that correct?

in the nostr client world of not much outbox implementation, seems like it would be a nice feature for tags and dms if it went to the tagged users inboxes also.... 🤔

i need to write moar custom scripts... hard to contact anyone reliably on nostr these days.