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 Let's pretend you're my little sister for some minutes. Let me give you a piece of advice for your teenage years

Date to understand what it feels like to talk with men, but don't take them seriously until you're 18+:

Dating can be a valuable learning experience. Use it as an opportunity to understand different perspectives and learn about yourself. However, as a teenager, it's essential not to rush into serious relationships. Focus on personal growth and building meaningful connections without feeling pressured to commit before you're ready. Use the dates to understand how men work and the kind of husband you will like to have in a future.
Do not give your boyfriend your virginity and please do not tattoo your boyfriend's name on your body, you'll look ridiculous and then you won't be able to remove it in a future.
Don't waste your time in a serious relationship, invest it in learning new languages and skills that you will need in your adult life. Concentrate on school and build a business with the goal of having location and financial freedom so you can travel and enjoy your youth with your friends and family.
Also find 1 or 2 real friends to do girly stuff and focus on building strong feminine relationships.
Do not have casual sex, don't do drugs, don't smoke and don't drink lots of alcohol. These habits will ruin your life and purity. Nobody wants to marry a girl who does not value herself. 
Instead, hit the gym, train hard and build muscle mass to grow healthy physically and mentally so you can prepare your body to one day be able to have babies with the correct man next to you. https://m.primal.net/LlFH.jpg 

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