some are naturals with women - that's genetics
but you can also learn and get better - you won't be the best - but you can improve quite a bit
getting pussy is all about convincing her that you're a high value man - you can either BECOME such a man, or you can learn how to fake it like a pro
basically either be important or act like you're important
act like the bitch should be thankful you're letting her suck your balls because you have 50 other bitches in line wanting to do that
i know it sounds ridiculous but it works