There’s a fine line between being yourself and threatening other’s sense of self. It’s hard to walk that line but I’ve learned that there’s a point where you have to just agree to disagree. And you definitely want to do that much earlier than you think. If you give your thoughts and they’re reacting like an NPC, just drop it. Sheep can still be valuable to you as friends. Some sheep eventually turn into wolves and you wanna be there if that happens.