There is no "good one", and enforcing a "Warsaw Ghetto"-style starvation blockade combined with sniper and drone attacks on women and children is the best way to support Hamas' popularity.

This has, as is well known, been Netanyahu's strategy ever since he was a young activist in Meir Kahane's orbit, but the pretence of otherwise has been more or less dropped lately.

I believe Zionism is ultimately an attempt to recreate the conformity and insularity of the pre-1850s European shetl, rejecting the post 1850s reality of Jews having citizenship and the opportunity to socialise (and assimilate with) other Westerners.

Zionism, to maintain this, requires both constant war and constant begging of coreligionists. 

My Western country is now flooded with draft-dodging young Israelis socialising across the religious boundary, and it makes me happy. Reverse-Aliyah is becoming fashionable.