That's what I love about nostr. I'm in control. All notifications are on off by default like my phone has been for years now :) 

But I get that chirping, ringing and vibrating is too embeded in people's genes nowadays. 

Cool problem solved by nostr:nprofile1qqsxg45ph8gx0vdrvtzta6xal7v86frx6jvstsnvhrlvtehmwwh4epqpzemhxue69uhk2er9dchxummnw3ezumrpdejz7qg7waehxw309ahx7um5wgkhqatz9emk2mrvdaexgetj9ehx2ap0qydhwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnnv968xarjv9kxjcfwvdhk6tc79x08a indeed