This is the quintessence of Stockholm Syndrome. 
nostr:nevent1qqszvhznrwtqcujkue93detdc5zun4u6ymrk622m0lpaxqqs7tzgk4spz4mhxue69uhk2er9dchxummnw3ezumrpdejqygrt3at7q3l5q2w2jdv37h2krexz5frl7kf3z97j2r43gpk2x2yhngpsgqqqqqqsmkpk23