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 The best way to make great friends with a lot to talk about isn’t always to work on entertaining new friends and becoming like them…

But it is to consistently do the things you want to do and be the places that you want to be. Then be open to the people that you meet there. You both are there because you want to be.

It’s why so many. Nostriches experience “friends at first sight” when they finally meet.

There are going to be a lot of different people here. We should be helpful. 

It’s a matter of time. Let it grow organically.