nostr:npub1t5m0nvfy3ukegy92tv73mvfn95ku9trys28uwd8hmndgj956wzpqz59guy best thing I ever did for my family relationship was cut them all off for a few years. I just did not have the time or energy to be constantly gaslit about things. When the channels finally opened up again, it was on my terms and that was made pretty clear and it has been a really healthy relationship ever since. It may have been pure luck but I would've cut them off anyway, had no expectation of things ever being better.