Its a few steps but I think user nightmare is a bit strong of terminology for it.😅 It could be simplified for reading, but writing is super easy. And where does hopping clients come into this? Each should have various purposes... is there anything that prevents a client from being developed that respects your relay list but only actually reads from specified choices? Or accepts only certain event types, sort of like Fountain is working towards?
Do you think a lack of support comes from that this concept isn't conducive to strengthening censorship-resistence more broadly, given the current state of relays & connection? Because, really I should be able to write this reply to my own relay & no other, but if I did you likely wouldn't see it, as things stand. (I mean, you *might* but really you should no matter what) Again... I'm just thinking it's too early yet. But maybe I'm missing something?