Dear men: If you are invited to speak at a conference, it is a huge privilege and I hope you’re excited. But please, please pause before you accept to check the list of other speakers – too many Swift events are happening with the most extraordinary gender imbalance, and it’s bad for everyone. I know you want to travel, present, meet people, and have fun, but please use your privilege to help ensure everyone is included. When we’re building apps for everyone, everyone needs to be in the room 🌈