Same here, but that wasn't my note about. I noted my opinion higher here. I'd burn and crash all this shit in a heartbeat. Comments in this thread about having a spine etc. merely point out arrogance and no experience/interest around different parents'/kids' psychology.
I spent with my kids last 5-6 years as a housewife/homeschooler, also locked in another country for a few years with babies during covid, we have almost no help from grandmas or so. So let me shrug at succeeding opinionated dads here and move on.