I'm running a proxmox server on a Lenovo M920x Tiny PC. This runs startOS and home assistant, currently (but I have a few other things to run, also). I am still figuring out a few things before I start syncing the necessary BTC node. 

I low-key detest lightning at this point. I am not sure what lighting setup I'll end up with, yet. But, I will definitely be running my own BTC node and mempool instance for the purposes of privacy.