you don't know what you're talking about. what struggle?
Poor choice of words maybe, you know what I mean https://v.nostr.build/D4Nzp22vRF35IRnz.mp4
sorry misread your response to utxo. you're absolutely right than most people will never use LN in a self sovereign way. they will opt for custodial,nonprivate solutions. that wont keep these religious fanatics from claiming they've solved Bitcoin privacy because there's this thing that will be implemented soon™️ that works for some people some of the time.