Oh well. In general all of life you kind of have to roll with the punches right? There's not really anything wrong you can do. Because there's an argument to be made free will vs determinism yadda yadda
BUT
The key is if you notice the pattern then you're learning. And you can be more analytical in what you do. Notice the pattern, and decide if you want that outcome or if your life needs a change.
Half the time it's messages from God or the universe or whatever you want to call it, like I get angel numbers CONSTANTLY.
I choose to notice it. Then take a moment and think about what I was doing or thinking in that moment.
Like if I'm out I'm like like dammmmnn that tattoo girl is fucking banging then I see 5:55 (change) I'm like oh yeah... My ex was smoking hot but ended up having all sorts of issues. Maybe I shouldn't go after people who whose outward appearance almost screams issues right to begin with. 🤷🏽