nostr:npub1smhgktylyuqqv9dlnxj0aq65s3fzesh2fku47g9z5r6qt9napgasp9hvr3 neat. It's been my experience that I mostly get what I deserve. If I'm looking for trouble, I get trouble. If I put in the work, I get something serious. I've been hurt many times, but it does me no good blaming the other person. All I can control is me, and I just keep working on that.