I hope you agree that I am free to choose to not having any child ever.
Not a big loss for humanity. Thank you for Amethyst though.
I will give you an AI smarter than any human before I die. Just to compensate.
Your life, your choice!! Kids can be great, better than you can imagine. But so can most things. Your choice 🤙
Of course you are. But I'm also of the opinion that for the vast majority of people that choose that, are selfish and making a terrible decision. I would agree you should be free to do heroin too. That doesn't make the decision to do heroin any less of a bad decision.
The good thing is that in this case your opinion/judgment is irrelevant. And voicing it out loud is only making us (and millions of people out there) go more against your opinion.
Are you going to not reproduce even harder, now, in protest?
How is being selfish making a bad decision for yourself? I think you're using the wrong word there. "Myopic" would have been a stronger argument. Also, one person is not most people. Why do you care if this one guy is choosing dev work over dad work?
I did say most people. I never said everyone. A generalization of literally yeah everyone would be a ridiculous argument. I didn't think it needed clarification. Dad work is more important than dev work though.
I'm just saying that because of that fact, it's pointless to argue for Vitor to have kids, which is what you're effectively doing, which is counterproductive when you haven't even shown that you'll respect his decision. You sound like a dick. I've made the same mistake many times, so believe me, I know this pushes people away.