this discussion needs to reckon with the distorting effects of 100 years of feminism on the the natural no-bullshit straight shooter communication that used to go on between western men and which served to keep the hierarchy and order in line.

Not only was the west not suffering from the debilitating paralysis of the psycho-spiritual reverberations of letting the woman out of the "cage" and into ALL formerly male spaces, but it was also racially and religiously homogenous... in other words WE KNEW OUR NEIGHBOR and treating him as we would treat ourselves is obviously not a self-destructive or self-sabotaging endeavour in the way that, say, it may be to "accomodate" your new neighbors, the islamists, thereby possibly disenfranchising your own childrens heritage... the complications are exponentially compounded by the movement of people based on money - the root of all evil.

when you REMOVE all that tradition and the well worn avenues of behaviour established, based on natural law and biblical principles, the pressure release valves are also compromised, including all the little shared and common courtesies that people in racially and religiously homogenous societies enjoy... 

the frustration builds. the courtesy disappears. the possibility for peace disappears. 

its great to treat your neighbor well - but WHO IS YOUR NEIGHBOR?

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/59994326-who-is-my-neighbor