Thanks for your replies, I think I'm getting slowly there. I created a wallet of satoshi which I added in my account (think it's working?). So now the zap should be able to come in, but I don't see how I can use that wallet to zap to other people, I'm using Iris on desktop, anything I'm missing?
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