auth.nostr1.com or inbox.nostr.wine are a good place to start (the second one requires payment). If you want to self host, haven by nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtn4w3ux7tn0dejj7qgnwaehxw309amk7apww468smewdahx2tcpz4mhxue69uhkvun9deejuat50phjummwv5hsqg8zenmu7gzq8ulj5jj4kv50ph3muwz43f747vmr9ld2alrjdswgavt99xv3 is really good 

 Appreciate that!! 🫡 https://i.nostr.build/R8HJxtydMTZAJO05.png  

 You should be able to use my fren relay for free as well: wss://frens.utxo.com  

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