Oddbean

On Humility #It'sOn Susan, You are right. Mental illness/mental health is big these days. Just like diabetes, heart disease, cancer and other types of serious mind and body afflictions. I guess you can call these First World disorders or modernization hazards. Not to poke fun at these. My Dad literally "dropped dead (ok, he was sitting in the back of a Nairobian taxi) because of heart failure (or so we were told. You never know in Africa!) and our life has not been the same since. And I don't mean for the better. Speaking for myself here. So I don't take any of this lightly. If I am "lashing out" or being "hurtful" I invite you all to question yourselves a bit more. I guess what I am saying is, the sure-ed-ness you all display with regards to the "fix" or the "solution" is in and of itself the problem for me. That is what is driving me bananas. You dismiss what I am trying to communicate without consideration and it shows. I wish you would all show some humility, some introspection, some heart (and brain) searching. Maybe Noha is right, maybe she has a point, maybe we missed something, is this situation really about what's wrong with her or what's wrong with me. One of my favorite authors, Nassim Nicholas Taleb, an American, but French, but Lebanese, said something to the effect of "when someone tells you something you fundamentally disagree with, almost to the point of having an involuntary physical reaction upon hearing, as in it cuts so deep to the core of who you are that your body "hears" it and reacts before your ears, you should ask yourself the following." How could that be true?" To me that is the mark of a "civilized man." By the way, he's a nutter. A brilliant nutter, but a nutter nonetheless. And he drives people who love him insane. He even alienates his fans. It's uncanny. Apparently his Dad told him if he is not pissing people off, he doesn't matter. If I had to guess, his motto must be something like...I piss people off therefore I matter. Also, do you have my Florence Lonely Planet guide? I swear you did not return it when I lent it to you in Florence. If yes, it's my book and I want it back. I hate it when people take my things and "forget" to return them. It's a pet peeve of mine. x Noha