We have big families so small wasn’t an option and getting married in a Church was important. I thought my wife was crazy for wanting 2-3 photographers and maybe a videographer…we settled on 2 photographers and afterwards I understand that a videographer frees up the other photographers to take more candied shots. Whatever you end up picking make sure YOU own the pictures - don’t let them hold all the event pictures and force you into overpaying for pictures later. Get all the ‘high def’ pictures on a thumb drive. 

The reception wasn’t a first pick but was functional (had an indoor waterpark as we had a ton of kids coming) and hotel attached. The best part was how turn key the place was - the tables, tablecloths, chairs, booze, and food were all-in-one and modest in cost. We tried the standard fair of ok chicken and substandard beef and nothing looked good til we saw the breakfast menu for the ‘next day’. Ended up having breakfast for dinner and saving a ton and guests loved it too.  

Just remember the day is about you two coming together, but it should also be about two families coming together as well. It doesn’t have to be perfect, most families aren’t…it needs to be special, because family’s are special. 

Good luck and enjoy the adventure!