At some point your man will do something you disapprove of
At that moment
You will call him "cringe"
You won't know it but you'll be shit-testing him
If he looks despondent and relents, you'll be satisfied in your victory but you'll resent him for his weakness
If he says "based" and continues on then you'll seethe at his disobedience but you'll bask in his manly aura of self-assurance