Why do people in my city think if I don't speak about your religious or spiritual views that I am automatically an atheist or a satanist 😂 

I don't generally speak about my views on things  when it comes to religious or spiritual stuff because in all honesty it doesn't really matter what my views are, I do have a view but my view shouldn't be known by everyone else and my view shouldn't be an influence for anyone else. It's a personal view.

I'm the exact same way with relationships, it's no one's business who I'm with or not with that's between me and them, if the relationship grows then I would also include my family and friends. Why is that so hard for people to understand.

Personal life and personal experience isn't weird, not everything should be public information, and if it ever becomes public information it should only become public when/if i decide to make it public, it's my life. I have the right to share as little or as much as I wish.