Whatever client feels the better, although making sure is connected to semi to fully enclosed relays only, —as in paid relays or domestic self hosted relays—. Key may be going over the lines of moderation and trust going together, hand in hand
Thank you for your response. I want to setup asap my own relay, any tutorial/video recommendation? ⚡
I don't have tutorials bookmarked yet... I did followed https://relay.tools git project to set mine over a paid vps and a registered domain; however I think the service offer a plug n play solution if using the domain and servers of them. Right away after installation it gives you a clearnet url such as https://nostr21.com that you could simply share with your relatives without a need for them to write to the protocol but still being able to read an check its content 🤙 .