Oddbean new post about | logout
 Went though a dozen last year.

The cute ones I found on apps were 90% damaged. They lied about their past, that they indeed have kids (despite saying they don’t), some were even married.

Found a good one in the wild but modern dating is 1000% different than it was. Just grateful didn’t get finessed along the way.

It’s a deeper conversation, and my perspective has changed dramatically from beliefs I held 3 years ago.