I think the problem starts with the “educate them”.
First of all Read The Fuckin Manual. Luckily there’s tons of good information in many wonderful books very accessible, you can access to the source, read the white papers, read the code or talk to the coders. Also a great deal of podcast, videos or tutorials from credited people.
Then anyone should have his strategy: “what I want to achieve” so what tools I need and how.
Somebody might want to just speculate to multiply his investment and protect from inflation in order to say buy a house, that person definitely needs KYC or even ETF. Others might want to fund “activist” causes, so they might want monero and probably swap to btc for the liquidity or multiple reasons… You name it.

About the crybabies… fuck then! Do your crying at home and RTFM bitches!