Old saying, from a centralised paradigm.
So if my brother runs a relay, am I his product…? No.
Lots of family, and community relays, makes Nostr not be a twitter…
New saying
Lots of relays, not anyone’s product! 

 Wishful thinking.  

 Put a relay in every client...? Then its not wishful. 

It'll be like cashu, micro mints everywhere...