Here is some sage advice.
If you are both married and you love each other with a positive relationship. As well as being able to afford the startup and maintenance costs of having a child. You should start now. While you are still young and have the energy.
Start having unprotected sex daily. Give her the Pamplona baby gravy. Start the next generation of Nostr developed geniuses now.
Once one is born. Wait 2 years. Do it all over again. Don't stop until you reach a satisfactory number of children that ensures your legacy thrives for thousands of years.
You don't want to both be in your 30's and 40's trying to have the same level of energy required to keep up with a toddler. Fuck what society is trying to brainwash you into not doing. Their intentions are not virtuous. My advice however is.
Good luck, have fun, and Godspeed. Just not too fast if you know what I mean lol.