The protocol is specifically designed to make centralized bans ineffective.

If you want to keep it that way, focus less on telling women to lie back and think of free speech, and more on ensuring that there is a large number of clients, controllers, servers, and relays. Then people can choose to read different things and have different levels of moderation and different types of content, and no one entity can unilaterally block anyone else.
Then it is a new Internet.

Free speech is an artefact of DECENTRALIZATION OF AUTHORITY and nothing else.