Freedom = Absence of coercion
If you define it as something else then you constantly run into contraditctions. With this definition, it becomes possible to unite in many types of freedom fights.
How to become free = Play it, it's a game!
One can only learn the rules of the game by playing it. Fuck around and find out (FAFO).
Winning = Becoming a better player
The fact that it's a indefinite game and that you win by becoming a better player means that you can win more often than you lose, and that you can win without me having to lose.
Summary:
Freedom is an indefinite plus sum game where every player can win without anyone having to lose.