If you can not define something then do not say it is the problem. You can define an abstraction and archetypes, even fake ones, if you actually educate yourself. Not spurt off a long winded serious of jumping to the wrong conclusions. 

All the traits you described and stated that hyper masculinity is the root cause of. Both I and many other women will tell you that those traits exist in women with gusto too. Visit a KFC parking lot in south Florida on a Friday night. I'll show you some hyper masculinity from some hardcore ghetto chicks that will have the average soy boy, butch woman, and weight lifting thug running for the hills. Just because another girl dared to even look at her man when ordering their 6 piece meal. 

Men and their masculinity is not something to be discarded. It is a source of strength, grit, and tenacity. The will to do what must be done, because it is logical and not because it is easy. 

Having the courage to not back down from a fight both physical and verbal. The wisdom to know that strength does not come just from the barrel of the gun, but also in words and  temperance. Knowing that such means are only to be used when it is just and righteous. 

Those who seek for us men to disregard our masculinity. Are the weak minded individuals who aren't capable of fully grasping its true  importance in this world. For we do not care that you hate us, because we know a vast majority of people who falsely think this way. Have been brainwashed into believing masculinity is a bad thing for a classic divide and conquer agenda.

We pity you for your weakness of will. As well as bless your heart for the stupidity that comes out of your mouth constantly that we must all endure. However through it all we still would do the right thing as masculine men and defend your life from harm. Even if it means harm may come to us too in the process of saving your life. That is the benefit of masculine willpower.

The source of your hatred is not masculinity. It is stemming from a fundamental misunderstanding of geopolitics. As well as how human interactions work on both a behavioral and societal level. Before you continue posting about this subject matter. I suggest you take a step back and research the other side of the fence. 

Learn how traditional masculinity is important for humanities survival. Then I hope one day you understand that you've been pointing the blame at the wrong people for your problems self attributed to hyper masculinity. A term you can't fully define and doesn't even truly exist in the first place.