Right.

I think people are going to be wondering what relays are and what the implications of choosing a relay over another.  Will this affect my experience here? Can I change later?  What's the right choice?  All of this is friction.

Either that for have a 'Randomly pick for me.' Button. From a UX perspective it's too much for many normies.  I already hear it from people who have tried nostr and left.

Look, its just my 2 sats from a slightly more technical normie wanting to help.