nostr:npub189nhq0cw33243htm08c53vjvgc5letv7d9sgqtgqsn6fnx6dv8zs0fsatx I spent three plus years trying to care for my desperately ill mother so I know a bit what you are going through.  Literally so stressed out I started having chest pains and had to have a heart cath. 
Prayers for you at this difficult time.