You don’t understand men.  Alpha men anyway.  
I mean no disrespect and to each their own.  I find a strong intelligent woman sexy but having two cooks in the kitchen has never been a better answer. Feminism has normalized some behaviors that are kinda “manlike”. Some guys like that, some don’t but there’s millions of years of evolutionary behavior trying to be undone in the last 65 years or so. Expect a bit of turbulence while western society works it out.