hahahaha. I have no patience for those wanna be sneaky conversation tactics. Clout chasin on the sneak tip with no manners and a desire to "steer" conversations or "frame" things or "give context" or see the integrated phenomena" or any of the other b.s. PMC nonsense phrases. 

Sorry for the rant but that attitude is an instant red flag. Those people ruin communities with their sneak words and self insinuation.