nostr:npub1khx67x36rsu5y2f3ruuq8crnxndmep88399l2phu50etnfcrkr6q6hgeyg I wonder if some of them don't feel trapped in their own relationships and it's a form of wishful thinking. "I can MAKE myself love him/her! That's my CHOICE!"

The idea of love being something that comes organically and does not need to be forced must be frightening to those who have never felt it.

(Disclosure: I myself have never been in love, but am wildly aware that it doesn't happen by shrugging and going "guess I'm stuck with THIS jerk.")